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Writer's picturePriyanka Shinde

Breaking the Myths: What New Managers Must Know to Succeed in Leadership

Stepping into a managerial role is a significant milestone in anyone's career. It's an exciting time filled with new opportunities, but it also comes with a set of challenges that many new managers don't anticipate. Transitioning from an individual contributor to a manager isn't just a step up the ladder—it's a leap into a whole new arena. This guide aims to shed light on the often-overlooked aspects of management, especially for Technical Program Managers (TPMs), and provide insights to help you navigate your new role effectively.

New Manager Myths

Common Management Misconceptions

One of the most common misconceptions about becoming a manager is that it's simply an elevated version of being an individual contributor. Many believe that excelling in their current role naturally prepares them for management. However, management is not just about leading your team; it's about navigating relationships sideways and upwards within the organization.

As a manager, you become the central point of contact not only for your team but also for stakeholders across the company. Your responsibilities expand exponentially, and the impact of your decisions reaches far beyond your immediate team. Understanding this broader scope is crucial for your success.


Misconception 1: Authority and Autonomy

The Myth: "Now, I will have the authority and autonomy to implement my ideas and make a greater impact than I could as an individual contributor."

The Reality:

Research shows that a whopping 82% of bosses are “accidental managers” and a quarter of those are in senior leadership roles, which is leading 1 in 3 workers to quit.

  • Increased Demands: You'll quickly find yourself burdened by demands from various directions—upper management, other departments, and your own team.

  • Total Accountability: You're responsible for everything your team does, including successes and failures.

  • Complex Interdependencies: You'll face more conflicting demands and dependencies than ever before.

  • Limited Control: Ironically, you may feel less in control because you're coordinating multiple moving parts and dealing with uncertainties.

Until you let go of this misconception, you may struggle to adapt to your new role. Recognize that management involves influencing others and navigating organizational dynamics, not just executing your own ideas.


Misconception 2: Control Over Impact

The Myth: "Now, I can control the variables because I have more 'power'."

The Reality:

One of the paradoxes of management is that while your impact increases, your direct control diminishes.

  • Dependence on Others: Success now relies on your team's performance, not just your individual efforts.

  • Uncontrollable Variables: Market shifts, organizational changes, and external factors can influence outcomes regardless of your actions.

Focus on what you can control—providing clear direction, supporting your team, and adapting to changes. Cultivate resilience and flexibility.


Misconception 3: Keeping the Team Happy

The Myth: "My job is to keep my team happy, and they should like me."

The Reality:

  • Balanced Leadership: While fostering a positive team environment is important, your primary role is to keep projects on track and meet organizational goals.

  • Tough Decisions: You'll need to make difficult choices that may not always be popular but are necessary for the team's success.

  • Broader Perspective: Effective managers understand the larger organizational context and how their team fits into it.

Striving to be liked can conflict with making objective decisions. Focus on earning respect through fairness, transparency, and consistency.


Misconception 4: Leadership = Management

The Myth: "Being a manager means I am a leader"

The Reality:

A common question arises: "Isn't leadership the same as management?" Understanding the difference is key to becoming effective in your role.

  • Leadership (The What): Setting the vision, inspiring others, and driving change.

  • Management (The How): Planning, organizing, and executing the strategies to achieve the vision.

Think of leadership as deciding to climb a mountain and management as organizing the expedition. You need both to reach the summit.

Develop both skill sets. Leadership without management can lead to chaos, and management without leadership can result in stagnation.


Misconception 5: Management Is Easier Than Being an Individual Contributor

The Myth: "Being a manager makes my job easy since the team will be doing more work."

The Reality:

Management has never been easy, and it's becoming more challenging in today's fast-paced, ever-changing business environment. In fact, according to studies about managers, 51% more responsibilities than they can effectively manage, 54% suffer from work-induced stress and fatigue 📊 44% struggle to provide personalized support to their teams. With these pressures, 1 in 5 managers would prefer not to manage people at all. The truth is, 48% of managers are at risk of failure.

  • Overwhelming Responsibilities: Managers often juggle numerous tasks, from team development to strategic planning.

  • Work-Induced Stress: The pressure to perform can lead to stress and fatigue, affecting both personal well-being and team morale.

  • Providing Personalized Support: With diverse teams, offering individualized support can be difficult yet is crucial for employee engagement.

Recognize these pressures and seek support when needed. Effective time management, delegation, and self-care are essential practices.


Misconception 6: Management Is Just About Managing A Team

The Myth: "My job as a manager is to manage a team."

The Reality:

As a manager, your influence extends beyond your team. A manager becomes the key point of contact for anything required of the team. There will be more demands on your time, and there will often be competing points of view between your team and stakeholders.

  • Cross-Functional Collaboration: You'll need to work with other departments, requiring strong interpersonal and negotiation skills.

  • Upward Management: Communicating effectively with senior leadership is vital to secure resources and align on goals.

  • Stakeholder Management: Balancing the needs and expectations of various stakeholders is a delicate but necessary task.

Invest time in building relationships across the organization. Understanding different perspectives enhances decision-making and fosters a collaborative culture.



Intentional Development Is Key

Becoming an effective manager doesn't happen by chance.

  • Seek Training: Participate in leadership development programs to build necessary skills.

  • Find a Mentor: Learning from experienced managers can provide valuable insights and guidance.

  • Reflect and Adapt: Regularly assess your performance and be willing to adjust your approach.

Insight: Proactive development helps bridge the gap between the skills you have and the skills you need to succeed in your new role.


Unique Challenges for TPM Managers

Technical Program Managers face specific hurdles due to the nature of their function.

  • Advocating for the Role: Unlike engineering or product roles, the TPM function can be misunderstood or undervalued. It's essential to articulate the value TPMs bring to the organization.

  • Strategic Partnerships: Build strong relationships with engineering and product teams to ensure alignment and collaboration.

  • High-Impact Work: Assign TPMs to projects that are critical to the company's success to demonstrate their strategic importance.

  • Balancing Tactical and Strategic Execution: Help your team differentiate between immediate tasks and long-term goals, fostering both efficiency and innovation.

By addressing these challenges proactively, TPM managers can elevate the function's profile and contribute significantly to organizational success.


Embrace the Journey

Transitioning to management is a significant shift that requires a new mindset and skill set. By understanding and addressing the misconceptions about the role, you can navigate the challenges more effectively.

  • Acknowledge the Differences: Recognize that management is not just a continuation of your previous role but a distinct discipline.

  • Develop Both Leadership and Management Skills: Balance setting the vision with executing the plan.

  • Build Broad Influence: Extend your impact by engaging with the wider organization.



Embrace the complexities and opportunities of management. With intentional effort and a willingness to learn, you can become a leader who not only drives success but also inspires and empowers others.


 

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the biggest challenge new managers face when transitioning from an individual contributor role?

The biggest challenge is shifting from focusing solely on personal achievements to being responsible for the performance and development of an entire team. This requires new skills in delegation, coaching, and strategic thinking.

How can I balance being liked by my team with making tough decisions?

Why is understanding the difference between leadership and management important?

What strategies can TPM managers use to advocate for their function?

How do I handle the feeling of losing control over outcomes as a manager?

What steps can I take to develop intentionally as a new manager?

How important is it to build relationships outside my team?

How can I manage the increased stress and workload that come with management?

What should I do if I feel overwhelmed by my managerial responsibilities?

How can I continue to grow and succeed as a manager in the long term?




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